2013年8月29日 星期四

你覺得你真的愛過嗎?

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你覺得你真的愛過嗎?
愛情的過程是可以決定結果%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;在感情的世界裡%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;如果其中一個人感覺不同了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;對另外一個人來說是很慘忍的%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;一個還在享受著那幸福的味道%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;而另一個卻已深陷在痛苦之中%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;我們都認為 愛一個人就是要對他好%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;對他好的同時 是不是也去考慮到對方要不要這份好?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;沒錯 你不能阻止任何一個人 對你好 喜歡你 愛你%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 如果他沒有要求相對的回報 那就是他的權力%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;當然 你也無法去控制任何一個人%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;不想對你好了 不再喜歡你了 甚至不再愛你了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 但是如果人人都能明白這個道理%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;社會上就不會有那麼多的情殺案了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 分手的時候 很多當初喜歡對方的原因 都成了分手的理由及藉口%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;有人說 愛一個人就是愛 說不出原因的%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;但是通常要求分手時 對方一定要逼你說出一個原因來%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 等你說出口時 他又會說”就因為這個原因?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 你就要我放棄那麼多年的感情?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 我辛苦經營了那麼久 怎能說放就放?”%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 愛真的可以不求回報嗎?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 到底 兩個人在一起是因為不甘心放手%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 還是因為習慣? 或是因為還相愛著?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 分手的時候%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;哭的那一個 不代表他最傷痛%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;提分手那個人 也不一定是最狠的那個人%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;感情分跟合 都是不能強求的%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 每一段感情 到最後都會變成一種習慣%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;從欣賞到喜歡 從喜歡到愛 從愛變成習慣 而習慣就成家人%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 有多少人能習慣這種習慣? 如果比率很高 就不會有那麼高的離婚率了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;有人恐懼婚姻 是因為婚姻暴力太多%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;是因為未來的一輩子裡都要對著同一個人%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;那到底是該感覺幸福? 還是恐懼?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;童話故事裡的最後一段%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;”白雪公主與白馬王子從此過著幸福快樂的生活” 令許多人嚮往婚姻%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;而當婚姻出現問題 卻又是輕易地把離婚說出口%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;看到身邊的朋友結婚時 其實很佩服他們的勇氣%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;很想問他們 為什麼會想嫁給他 為什麼想娶她%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;可能會得到這樣的答案%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;因為 我們交往很久了 不娶(嫁)她(他) 好像也說不出理由%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 因為 他對我很好%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;因為 我們年紀都到了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;因為 我們有小孩了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;因為...........有太多的因為......... 都是不是因為兩個人自己的原因%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;不是因為父母 就是因為年紀%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;不是因為小孩 就是因為交往很久了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;或許某一方原本並不是那麼想結婚的%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;但是輿論的壓力 家庭的壓力 力量實在太大了 於是認命的人結了%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;不婚主義者會說 婚姻只是一紙合約書 人生就是要追求快樂%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;但是當你在追求快樂的同時 或許卻會令身邊的人擔心%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;當兩個人的事 已經不只是兩個人的事時%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;還能夠只考慮到自己想去追求的快樂嗎?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 此時身邊的人不斷在問:%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 你們交往也有一段時間了,什麼時候結婚啊?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;等到結婚之後 又有人問:%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 你們都結婚幾年了,什麼時候要生啊?%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;大家不都是狗仔嗎? 我們都不是公眾人物吧!%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;但是都住在三姑街或六婆巷%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;人看似幸福的一對 大家都會很”關心”你們的情形%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;所以大家都沒錯 因為大家會問也是因為關心嘛!%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; 俗話說得好:家家有本難唸的經.清官難斷家務事.%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;所以人家的事 還是讓人家自己去解決吧%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;有時兩個人的相處細節 只有兩個人最清楚%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;任何旁人都沒有辦法介入去瞭解的%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;”關心的介入” 也只會把事情複雜化而已%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp; %26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;如果你愛一個人,隨遇而安,讓他/她自由的飛,%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp; %26nbsp;%26nbsp;%26nbsp;如果最後他/她還是回到你身邊,那就是命中注定的。

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